DON'T EVER LET THEM HUMILIATE YOU AGAIN

 

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HOW TO STAND UP FOR YOURSELF AT WORK

Dan O'Connor online communication skills training course for work

What This is and What it Will Do for You:

This new online course has been created specifically for professionals who have reached their breaking point and feel as if they are running out of options for dealing with the way they're treated at work, and need to take their life back.

Being bullied, dismissed, or ridiculed at work can have a devastating effect on your self-esteem and self-respect, and will eventually negatively impact every relationship in your life.

In this course you'll learn exactly what to say to shut down those big-mouths, command the respect you deserve, and enjoy an entirely new level of self-esteem because you'll be taking your life back.

 

The Problem:

 

The problem is what you’re saying and doing.

That’s it.

It’s not what everyone else is saying and doing--they’re all just fine; they’re not here looking for some relief.

You are.

And it’s a big deal because until you eliminate the disempowering communication patterns that have brought you to this point and replace them with new ones, it will never get any better no matter where you go. 

The Solution:

 

Change the way you communicate at work.

That’s it.

If you communicate the same way tomorrow as you did yesterday, you will have the same experience tomorrow as you did yesterday.

It's that simple.

If you want a new experience, you have to use new, better words.

That's exactly what you're going to get in this course: the words that will change the way the whole world sees you and the way you see the world; therefore--ipso facto--these words will change the experience you have in every relationship for the rest of your life.

 

Erica

Transport and Logistics

Australia

Hi Dan, I just wanted to reach out to you and THANK YOU for changing my life; I now have my dream job and respect from everyone, THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you for changing my life!

But this course isn't for everyone. 

This is module 5 in my new upcoming Communication Skills Masterclass. You may not need this type of communication training right now. Odds are you will need it at some point, but if you're simply struggling with:

  • difficult customers
  • a narcissistic boss, or
  • obnoxious co-workers, 

then probably my Communication Skills Masterclass module on dealing with difficult people (coming soon) would suffice. Of course, you may opt to get the entire masterclass, including all 8 modules (which are free for you VIP Pass holders--as soon as the courses hit my store), but if you were to choose just one, make sure to take the assessment below to help determine if this is the one for you.

FEELING INVISIBLE?

Do people go out of their way to leave you out of the loop, ignore you, and make sure you know that you don't matter to them?

GETTING RIPPED OFF?

Do people rob you of the recognition they think you don't deserve anyway, and pretty much demean everything you do?

ARE YOU THE TARGET?

Had enough of people backstabbing and gossiping about you, because they think of you as a joke or a clown--or because they are jealous of you?

So if you're tired of:

  • Being passed up for promotions because of office politics
  • Being laughed at or feeling stupid
  • Suffering from low self-esteem
  • Feeling trapped
  • Being manipulated and used
  • Suffering from depression resulting from your relationships at work.
 

And feeling like you're not the role model you hoped to be for your kids or others who are looking up to you,

Pre-register today and take a stand at work.

Some of What You'll Learn:

How to Shut Down Interruptors

Stop people from stealing the floor from you or interrupting you as though what you have to say doesn't matter.

How to Tell People the Dump is Closed

End the cycle of manipulation that leads to getting dumped on-- by asking the right tactical questions.

How to "Push Back" and Stand Your Ground

No more will people be able to manipulate you and wear you down until you surrender to their agenda.

How to Get People to Respect What You Say

If you've trained others to dismiss what you say as "just a suggestion," you'll learn how to re-train them to listen to--and respect--what you say. 

How To Change the Way The World Sees You

When you change the way you communicate with the world, you change the way you see everyone in it, and the way they see you.

Check out this

free lesson from Dan

This video is just part of Lesson 3, Module 5

Take me to the free lesson

This introductory lesson is to be completed before starting the course

 

  1. How to use visual cues, flashcards, and other learning tools to speed up the learning process and help you experience quicker, more dramatic results
  2. Getting started with your Danger Phrase and Power phrase Lists
  3. Your Personal Compass
    1. What it is
    2. How it works
    3. How to use it
  4. Communication Principles that are the foundation to the tactics you'll be implementing in this course

LESSON 1

THE ELEMENTS OF TAKING A STAND,

STANDING YOUR GROUND, AND NOT BACKING DOWN

  1. How to use the "That may be, but . . ." coupled with the broken record to stick to your guns and stand your ground when someone tries to get you to back down or surrender to their agenda.
    1. PLUS: How to surrender the right way if the time comes to do so.
  2. How to use the 3- step anti-interruptor to hold the floor and stop people from interrupting or talking over you.
  3. How to stand your ground and train people that your no means no by using the 3-step or 4-step saying no process.
  4. How to respond to "The Judge" and judgmental comments.
  5. How to send the right fundamental body language signals when dealing with aggressive people at work.

*More will most likely be added to this lesson based on questions and feedback

LESSON 2:

HOW TO SET BOUNDARIES AND

RE-ESTABLISH YOUR POWER AT WORK

  1. How to use Boundary Statements to stop inappropriate workplace behavior.
  2. How to let someone know when they have crossed a boundary or when they won't stop crossing them.
  3. How to distinguish between crossing boundaries and harassment and when to involve others (IE take it to the next level).

*More will most likely be added to this lesson based on questions and feedback

LESSON 3:

HOW TO TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR CONVERSATIONS

BY KNOWING THE NAMES AND MECHANICS OF TACTICAL QUESTIONS:

WHAT THEY ARE, HOW THEY WORK, AND HOW TO USE THEM

  1. How to turn the tables on those who seek to exercise power over us using questions.
  2. How to use body language techniques to master the art of asking questions both verbally and physically.
  3. How to identify the different types of questions and determine which is most appropriate for what situation.
  4. How to end the Cycle of Manipulation That Leads to Getting Dumped on by Asking the Right Tactical Questions.

 *More will most likely be added to this lesson based on questions and feedback

LESSON 4:

STRATEGIES FOR INFUSING YOUR THOUGHTS

AND YOUR MESSAGE WITH CLARITY AND FOCUS

  1. What is passive-aggressive communication and the secret to disarming passive-aggressive people.
  2. How to assign people a "number" and why you want to.
  3. Using spotlight and clarifying questions to stand up to snipers, insulters, and other passive-aggressive communicators.
  4. How to stand up to aggressive office bullies with ease using the right kinds of challenge questions.
  5. How to shut down rude, insulting people using power phrases and strategic verbal patterns.
  6. How to overcome objections (even from your boss) and gain support for your ideas using the solution-focused question.

 *More will most likely be added to this lesson based on questions and feedback

LESSON 5:

STRATEGIES FOR WRITING EMAILS

AND OTHER MESSAGES THAT ARE BEYOND REPROACH

  1. How to use writing rule #1 to save face, and save yourself time and trouble.
  2. How to set someone straight or call someone out in an email with tact, finesse, and professionalism.
  3. How to "document it" when you need to demonstrate how someone else was wrong or when you are falsely accused.
  4. How to do your own assessments and evaluations so you can gauge where you are and how to get to where you want to be.
  5. How to defend yourself or respond to aggressive communication in group emails.

 *More will most likely be added to this lesson based on questions and feedback

LESSON 6:

STRATEGIES FOR DEALING WITH NARCISSISTS AT WORK

  1. How to save your reputation while working for a narcissist.
  2. Conversational strategies for talking to narcissists.
  3. How to defend yourself against a narcissist saboteur.
  4. How to persuade, disagree with, or argue with a narcissist boss.
  5. How to stop gaslighting and other cruel behavior at work.

 *More will most likely be added to this lesson based on questions and feedback

 

This final lesson will be based entirely on any feedback, questions, or challenges students have had during the course.

Live "Office Hours" Calls With Dan

Have an important question about how to respond or what to say? Want a fresh perspective to help you make better, wiser communication choices? I've got you.

During office hour, I'll tackle your toughest questions and provide advice and guidance to help you move forward and transform your relationships. If you can't make it live, no problem; download the audio recording or transcript.

Here's a snapshot of my course calendar below: It wasn't until I saw it that I realized just how much learning, collaboration, and live interaction each student has! Remember, the Live Office Hours are only available to those who pre-register, and seating is limited to 25 students maximum.

Ekaterina Tsoncheva

MA, CCH, CLC

Author of “Unlock Your Brain Code” 

Wow, wow, wow! I can’t thank you enough. Ever since i started, I’ve noticed a big change in the way i express myself & the way i relate to others.

Your words and the energies that stand behind them are liberating. 

What's included in the course for the price of tuition:

One New 30-Minute Video Lesson Every Day for 7 Days

With all you'll learn, you'll see an immediate and dramatic difference in every relationship you have.

Normally courses begin at $97/day

$97 x 7= $679

Regular Price: $679

Downloadable Audio-Only Version of Daily Lesson

Listen and review wherever it's most convenient for you; while you're on the go, at the gym, or relaxing at home.

Audio courses start at $149

Regular Price: $149

Downloadable, Printable Materials for Every Lesson

One of the keys to your speedy success is engaging all the ways we learn; you'll read it, write it, hear it, and speak it so you can achieve subject mastery in record time.

Multimedia courses begin at $179.

Regular Price: $179

Quick-Reference Flashcards

Visual cues are key for both learning and retention. You'll get the same cards I use so you can have your new words ready to go just when you need them the most.

Included in almost all my courses.

Regular Price: Free with lesson

Angelica Anderson

Retired, Canada

Today, for the first time in my life, I felt I was winning with a narcissist instead of feeling like a narcissist was trying to break me, my life, and my relationships.

Thank you.

My life has changed.

 

IN AS LITTLE AS ONE WEEK, YOU COULD BE ENJOYING:

New Self-image

Be proud of the person you see in the mirror, and the mindfulness and kindness you show to others--and to yourself.

New Levels of Respect

Respect from your coworkers and bosses when they see you taking a stand and standing your ground.

New Professional Reputation

Be seen as social but not a goof-off, and competitive but not confrontational.

New Sense of Pride

Pride in the way you handle yourself and how you stand up for what's right.

 

PLUS, AS PRE-REGISTRATION BONUSES YOU WILL RECEIVE:

All the extras listed below that will be unavailable to subsequent purchasers--once the course is released to the public and placed in my website store.

PRE-REGISTRATION BONUS #1:

3 "Live Office Hours" Sessions With Dan

As part of your tuition, you'll be able to take advantage of Dan's new "Live Office Hours" program where he'll be taking your questions and responding to comments live on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday nights at 8:00pm CST. You'll also get a recording and transcript of every Live Office session.

Regular price to attend Live online breakout sessions or instructor-led workshops: $99

PRE-REGISTRATION BONUS #2:

Instant Access to Our New Student Forum

This is a great budget-friendly way to gain direct access to Dan.  Dan will respond to questions and leave comments and feedback in this forum on a daily basis.

Exclusive preview of upcoming lessons before they're released to the public and your feedback will help shape this course.

1 written exchange/advice session with Dan: 

Regular Price $99

PRE-REGISTRATION BONUS #3:

$350 To Spend In Our Store

As a pre-sale course buyer you'll immediately receive a coupon good for $350 off your entire cart in our store. Whether it's another course or a VIP pass, we know you'll want to start your journey right away, and a quick $350 is going to give you an immediate boost. Pro Tip: Spend it towards a VIP Pass and once you have that, everything else is free from now on.

A $350 Value

OUR DON'T-EVEN-ASK NO MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE! 

I'm so sure that my training will surpass your expectations, I'm offering a 100% no-money-back guarantee.

Yes, you read that correctly.

In over 20 years of training, I can count on one hand and name the  customers who have asked for their money back, and in each and every case these customers knew they would ask for their money back before they even purchased--they do it all the time--it's what they do.

And while it very rarely happens, it aggravates me too much; I feel as though they stole from my father who spent his whole life pouring into me what I now teach, and from my grandmother who falsified her age on government documents (way to go, Gram) so she could work extra shifts to pay the college tuition for those whom she wanted to have a better life. Maybe it shouldn't bother me so much but it does. And I can't let it happen again.

That said, what really aggravated me was knowing that it wasn't necessary.  If you know me, you know that I'm always saying--and I'll say it again here--if you can't afford something, ask me for help.  I believe my prices are fair and reflect not just the work that goes into making them, but the superior quality you'll always find in anything I sell.  And the monetary exchange honors the value of the product that's about to have a huge positive impact on your life. That said, I know what it's like to need help and it's an honor to be able to give it, so if someone needs my help and can't afford it, I'm always more than happy to work something out with them.  I'm honored to have the opportunity to do so.

HAVING SAID ALL THAT, there will always be a handful of people out of the masses who just can't help but scam, and digital products are one of their favorite fruits.

What's more, I give so much away, if you want to try my training or see what you'll get out of it, you have many many different ways to do that.  Once you get to the point where you'd like a premium product or coaching or course, there should be no doubt in your mind that my products are a perfect fit for you.

So I hope that explains why (if you've gotten this far), you know you're going to get more than you bargained for and I'm going to exceed your expectations.  If you're not sure of that, my training is not for you.  If you are sure, WELCOME TO DAN O'CONNOR TRAINING!  I'm here for you.

Dan

PRE-REGISTRATION SPECIAL PACKAGE PRICE

$450

TO SUM IT UP, THIS IS EVERYTHING YOU GET:

  • 7 STREAMING VIDEO LESSONS 30-45min. each
  • 7 DOWNLOADABLE AUDIO RECORDINGS of the lessons
  • 7 PDF DOWNLOADS with each lesson's summary, worksheet, visual cues, and flashcards
  • ACCESS to 3 LIVE OFFICE HOURS SESSIONS with Dan
  • INSTANT ACCESS to the student forum
  • $350 to spend in our online store

If you wait until the timer runs out to buy these individually, you'll spend over $1550.

If you buy during the pre-sale event, however, you're getting this course and all the extras at the best price you'll ever see And remember that you'll immediately receive a voucher for $350 that you can  apply towards anything in our store, including a VIP all-access pass if you wish..

 

And you're getting it all for just

$450

but only during this pre-sale event.

Once that clock hits 10pm CST on May 23, 2021 this offer will vanish for all eternity.

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ISN'T IT TIME YOU SHOWED THEM WHAT YOU'RE MADE OF AT WORK?

 

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